“Do
we have to watch the knife and gun report again?” my wife and I would
lament to each other every night early in our marriage.
We eventually
decided to stop watching the evening news, feeling relentlessly
inundated with shocking images and sickening stories of greed, hatred,
trauma and callous acts of inhumanity.
It’s not that natural
disasters don’t exist or that there isn’t plenty of hard-hearted
behaviour in this world. And a newscast might indeed include something
positive. But it would typically be fleeting and overshadowed by darker
and more fear-mongering stories. These stories were sure to grab a hold
of your amygdala, the fear centre of the brain, and not easily let go.
As
we watched night after night, we unwittingly and fairly mindlessly (at
first) became products of a news media that portrayed our world as
severely broken with no hope or sun behind the dark clouds. Why was the news affecting us so much? Why did we choose to turn away from most news sources? How
we consume and digest our news media are two vital factors to consider
that can help answer these questions. Fortunately, they are also two
such factors that we have more personal control over.
News media consumption
We
can think about how we get our news as akin to how we consume our food.
Consumption is basically all about the patterns and frequencies with
which we take in something external to us - like saturated fat, sugar or
vegetables.
So when we ask about how often an individual or a
particular demographic tunes in to watch the nightly TV news or checks
out a news article on a smart phone news app, we are seeking relatively
quantifiable data about news media consumption. For example, the vast
majority of American college students are constantly on their phones
wherever they go, and the vast majority actively seek out “breaking
news” much more than “sports news” or “local news”.
And because
smart phones are a veritable extension of the arms of most college
students (and most other demographics for that matter), students are
more or less consuming their (breaking) news on autopilot - simply
because it’s there (remember the last time you finished off that bag of
crisps just because they were already open and on the table in front of
you?).
News media digestion
If news media
consumption is all about patterns and frequencies of taking in different
types of news, then digestion can be thought of as the process of how
the media actually feels when it “goes down,” how it gets absorbed into
our psyches, and how it affects us emotionally and socially over the
short and long term. Our past experiences, personalities, sensitivities,
proclivities, relationships and cultural climate all influence the
digestive process.
Think about food again for a moment: if you
constantly eat foods high in sugar, you will most likely feel the
physical, emotional and mental effects of such a consumption pattern.
And if your spouse snacks on sugary treats throughout the day, you may
follow suit more or less mindlessly as is often the case with food
consumption patterns in families.
News media digestion is really
no different. If you surround yourself with particularly pessimistic
people, hearing about the latest crisis in the Middle East, for example,
might further your sense of hopelessness about a resolution to any
geopolitical and religious battle across the globe. If you tend to be a
highly optimistic person, perhaps even the most horrific of breaking
news stories may not break your sense of hope for a more positive world.
Mindless consumption, unhealthy digestion
Imagine
running into friendly people wherever you go, and these people hand you
delicious chocolates. Just a few pieces at a time, every few hours,
here and there. Presuming you are otherwise healthy, the effect might be
a subtle change in your behaviours and attitudes. If you enjoy
chocolate, you might change your daily routine to make sure you got
more. But chocolate also has a way of attracting our attention; even if
we weren’t intending to consume it, we might if it were handed to us.
So
here is the rub: in our contemporary digital media age, we are
bombarded by news media of which we are not fully in control. Images and
stories are handed to us, like the chocolate, at the supermarket
checkout line, on our phones, on TV, on the radio. This doesn’t allow
for conscious consumption to fuel healthy digestion.
A promising solution: the mindful media diet
Mindful
awareness is the act of intentionally bringing our attention to our
present moment with curiosity and acceptance. It is one way to help
ourselves simultaneously stay grounded, inquisitive and informed.
By
adopting a mindful media diet, we are purposefully choosing to tune in
or tune out based on our current mood, our short-term goals, and our
longer-term values. This is a very different endeavour to mindlessly
tapping our phones while standing in line for coffee and checking our
automatically set alerts and notifications about the latest crime,
economic crisis or accident.
Here are some suggestions for specific ways to adopt a mindful media diet:
1. Look for the silver lining
We
must remember that there is more right with this world than wrong with
it, no matter what we perceive or are told. We deserve this as a matter
of being human. From a purely utilitarian vantage point, it helps us
stay grounded, positive, and better able to solve the real problems
before us. Fred Rogers, champion of kindness and host of the popular
Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood children’s show, captures this tenet
beautifully: “When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news,
my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find
people who are helping.’”
2. Purposefully and intentionally seek out news sources that are constructive, honest and forward thinking
These
can serve to illuminate the hidden treasures and gifts of the world,
whether they manifest as good deeds of an individual or group or as the
compassion and connection that already exist around us.
3. Cultivate curious and intentional awareness as you consume your news
This
can facilitate a healthier and less disruptive digestive process. Ask
yourself how this “news meal” might feel as it is consumed. Pause for a
moment before tapping your news app and ask yourself “what is my
intention right now?”. Project into the future for moment to help
determine what it might feel like to continue consuming in this way.
Then decide for yourself (rather than have external forces decide for
you) what and how you consume next.
4. Limit your news media minutes
Following
a mindful media diet entails making sure you are not consuming news on
autopilot, spending hours a day lost down the rabbit hole of global
crises or chronic problems of your country. Literally setting a time
limit for smart phone news use can be very liberating (albeit awkward at
first). And turn off your TV after a few minutes of news rather than
feeling compelled to tune for a full 30 or 60 minutes just because
that’s how long the news show lasts.
News media consumption is an
art with tremendous real-world application. When you consciously and
intentionally gain more influence over what you take in, you can digest
with greater peace of mind and with greater benefit to yourself and
everyone else around you. What we take in about our world can actually
influence what we give back. Let’s all start our mindful media diet
today!